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THERE ARE few things in the world better than oral sex. The only issue is that in order to receive it, you need a partner…or at least you did until oral sex toys came into the picture. In case you’re new to the concept, Jenni Skyler, PhD, a licensed marriage and family therapist for AdamEve.com, says oral sex toys are the next best thing to the real deal. This is because they not only feel realistic, but they can be extremely beneficial to your sex life—both solo and partnered—as well.
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As the name suggests, oral sex toys are made to simulate the sensations of the mouth. “Some [toys] are designed more for penises, offering an immersive console or sleeve for penetration,” explains Casey Tanner, a certified sex therapist and expert for Lelo. “Others are built with the vulva in mind and mimic the sucking motion of the mouth or the licking of the tongue.”
When shopping for an oral sex toy, Tanner says you’ll want to consider the type of sensations you’re hoping to feel. Some toys offer intense stimulation, some offer light, and some even mimic the warmth and suction of a mouth. It’s also important to pay attention to the materials used (body-safe is key here), whether or not the toy is waterproof, and if it takes batteries or is rechargeable. Some toys—such as masturbator sleeves with two openings—are easier to clean than others, so bear that in mind as you shop.
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If at this point you’re ready to throw money at your computer in return for the best blowjob of your life, here are the top oral sex toys for penises and vulvas, all guaranteed to get you off like never before.
One of the best oral sex sleeves comes from Lelo, and while it’s on the pricier side, you get what you pay for by way of technology, durability, and sheer pleasure. Instead of having to move your own hand (like if you were masturbating the old-fashioned way), the app-enabled device actually does the work for you via four different, customizable programs that do what mouths could only dream of.
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Dr. Jenni suggests this award-winning 6.5-inch sleeve for anyone craving suction and ease. Many reviewers say it feels like a real blowjob, and while this one isn’t powered (so you have to do the motion yourself), the stimulation is worth it. Plus, with openings on both sides, it’s easy to clean and incorporate into partner play.
Tenga Eggs are one of the most innovative masturbation toys for penises, and they offer a sensation that’s like oral sex, but maybe even better. All you have to do is squeeze some lube in the egg, pull it over your penis, and do your thing. Each egg in this 6-pack features a different texture for unique experiences, plus these can easily be used solo, with a partner, and even on vulvas.
Most strokers have one pressure setting, but this sleek option from Satisfyer gives you the ability to determine how tight of a squeeze you want with the touch of a simple button. Don’t forget the lube since the texture inside feels best—and most mouth-like—with lots of it.
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If you want a diverse toy that can give you the feeling of oral sex but has other uses, Tanner suggests wands like this masturbator from Man Wand. Reviewers say this vibrating toy, in particular, is great if you have trouble getting or staying hard, and with some lube and circular motions, it can feel exactly like a blowjob.
Molded directly from Sasha Grey’s actual mouth, this 5 ½” phthalate-free stroker is made from skin-like UR3 to feel extremely life-like. The lip and tongue design makes the experience more realistic to the point that one review says this toy is actually better than oral sex. Heat it up in warm water first to take things to the next level.
This 2-in-1 stroker is an obvious favorite because it has dual openings—a mouth and a vagina side—depending on what you’re in the mood for. With ribs and nubs that caress on the inside and an internal length of 5.9 inches, it provides plenty of realistic stimulation for a solid price.
Sex machines are pretty much exactly what they sound like (machines that simulate sex), and the Hummer 2.0 is tops for having solo oral sex. The suction sleeve—which is detachable and can be used on its own—moves up and down your penis hand-free, and the actual machine features six speeds, 10 vibration patterns, and randomizes to feel realistic as you sit back and enjoy.
Though it looks simple, this 3” long sleeve is an essential everyone should have at the ready. Made from lifelike ULTRASKYN that warms to the touch, the internal massaging beads create a mouth-like sensation, especially when used with ample lube. The sleeve is great solo but doubles as a couple’s toy that makes oral sex and hand jobs better for everyone involved.
“For those with a clitoris, sucking toys like the Satisfyer Breathless are excellent,” explains Dr. Jenni. “It comes with a multitude of speeds and intensities for all types of stimulation. It can build arousal slowly, or just right in for an efficient orgasm.” Slim and ergonomically shaped, this toy is easy to fit between bodies to use solo or together.
Easy-to-grip and discrete at just 2.75 inches long, this silicone clitoral vibrator comes with a travel lock making it ideal for tossing in your luggage. The smaller size doesn’t take away from the power, though. The scooped opening surrounding the lips and clit has a tongue-shaped teaser that filters between 12 impressive vibration patterns.
The rechargeable Womanizer Liberty is one of the most popular clitoral oral sex vibrators around thanks to the unique Pleasure Air™ Technology that provides a realistic (and direct) suction feeling. Six intensity levels are easy to switch between via the surface buttons and the small size makes it a fun addition to couple’s play as well.
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Most toys on this list are designed for solo play, but this one specifically is great to use with a partner. The mini stretch vibe slips on the tongue to add extra sensation while giving oral sex. You can also put it over your finger to use on the frenulum, nipples, or other erogenous zones if you’re not feeling the tongue thing.
Double-sided with both a suction and a tongue function, the Blowfish stimulator gives two sensation options for one fairly reasonable price. Beyond just the types of stimulation, the vibrator features seven different modes to select from depending on the preferred level of intensity.
This licking, sucking, vibrating toy does it all, making it an ideal choice for someone who wants a little bit of everything. With an insertable end, a tongue with eight licking modes, and two attachable suction cups (one for the clit and one for the nipples), it’s worth the higher price for all the play options it provides.
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“If you know your body is more sensitive and desire lighter stimulation, select a toy like Sila Cruise that uses sonic waves instead of direct contact to simulate the softness of the tongue or a light sucking motion,” says Tanner. “Its large mouth accommodates different clit sizes and pleasures the whole clit, not just the center. It’s also made of soft, warm silicone.”
Some people prefer more of a touch sensation than a suction one, and the Better Love Tap Dancer delivers with a tapping function that feels just like a flicking tongue. The slim size makes it easy to use as a couple, and the six modes make finding the right intensity simple for any situation.
Shaped like a flower but made for getting laid, INYA’s Rose Stimulator is a gift that’ll impress aesthetically and sexually. The focused stimulation features three speeds and seven patterns that work just as well on the nipples as it does on the clitoris. Use with a water-based lube for the best results.
Some people like internal stimulation in addition to external when receiving head, and the Womanizer Duo does both to give that awesome filled-up feeling. Pulsing air pressure massages the clitoris like a tongue while the vibrating internal stimulator mimics the feel of fingers for one hell of an oral session.
Dr. Jenni says oral sex toys are generally good options since they offer a lot for arousal and orgasm even if you’re not specifically looking for oral stimulation. The rechargeable Lora DiCarlo Filare massager is a prime example since the internal swirling balls (that mimic the feel of the tongue) work as well on the frenulum, nipples, balls, and shaft as they do on the clit.
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With an insertable length of 4.5” and 10 different vibration patterns, this silicone plug is a must for anyone who likes ass play. The soft, flexible base makes it easy to control, and if you want an oral feel over penetrative, apply plenty of lube and rim the anus for a mouth-like sensation.
Though technically a clitoral toy, the Ora 3 is Tanner’s favorite for replicating oral sex on both vulvas and penises. “The Ora 3 has a small nub that rotates and vibrates, creating sensations similar to those of the tongue circling the clit or head of the penis,” she explains. “12 settings allow for a spectrum of vibration intensities, which is a nice feature for diverse body types and preferences.”
With six speeds, six patterns, and a tapping sensation that works well on most erogenous zones, this unique external vibrator is a favorite for all types of play but is especially great for miming oral on vulvas and penises. The looped handle makes it easy to control when things get slippery and one charge lasts up to 120 minutes for continuous stimulation.
Like mentioned earlier, oral sex toys mimic the sensations of the mouth. It's also worth mentioning sex toys have more than one use, no matter how they’re marketed. “There’s no reason a toy made for vulvas can’t be pleasurable when used on the head of a penis,” Tanner explains. “A toy made for a vulva can also be used to simulate anal oral sex (aka a rim job).” Just make sure not to insert anything into the anus that isn’t specifically an anal toy, since the rectum can act as a vacuum resulting in an emergency room visit on your end.
Obviously oral sex toys are clutch for when you’re single and miss getting head. But they also have their place in relationships. If your partner isn’t comfortable giving oral sex, if they’re physically/emotionally unable, or if your libidos are mismatched, Dr. Jenni says these toys can help you scratch the itch.
That said, these devices aren’t just a replacement for oral sex—they can (and sometimes should) be used with your partner(s) as well. “Most people with vulvas orgasm from external stimulation, such as during oral sex,” explains Tanner. “Toys can assist in multi-tasking to increase pleasure.” So using an oral sex toy on your partner’s clitoris while you penetrate them greatly increases their odds of reaching orgasm.
To find the oral sex toys worth investing in, we consulted with Jenni Skyler, PhD, a licensed marriage and family therapist for AdamEve.com; and certified sex therapist and expert for Lelo, Casey Tanner. We evaluated our picks based on value, style, durability, how well they worked, and how well they delivered on their pleasure claims. Finally, we considered oral sex toys that had high customer ratings and good reviews on e-commerce websites we trust.